Friday, December 3, 2021

Reduce Tensions

 

    Tension can be defined as “the state of being stretched tight” or relating to a “mental or emotional strain.”  However you want to define it tension seems to be an every day part of our human existence.  Whatever we may be facing in our lives tension seems to be involved to some degree or the other.

     I’m not saying I completely agree with all the following, but I found this list of things we can do to help in relieving tension.  Look it over and see what you think.  Maybe there is a point or two (or maybe more) on this list that would be of help to you.

1.     Identify the real cause of stress.

2.     Events causing stress should be noted down and analyze it once each month.

3.     Your reactions to each stressful event should be recollected and compared with one another.

4.     Should not give immediate response to stressful event ,always take little time to think.

5.     If any tension comes ask your inner man (Mind) for a solution, he is more intelligent than you.

6.     Past is past always concentrate on future events and gather courage and willpower.

7.     Need not bother about your loss, but find out the reason for it and try to solve it.

8.     Face all situations with confidence.

9.     Keep faith in God and worship him.

10.  Always hope for the best.

11.  Always keep a positive approach.

12. Before doing anything, plan a solution to face a negative situation.

13. Should not live only for money.

14.  Help the poor people .

15.  Visit the sick people and give them moral support.

16.  Whenever you are tensed take a deep breath and relax.

17.  If you are tensed countdown from 100 to 1.

18.  If any stress comes look at the beautiful picture kept on the wall.

19.  Keep some flowers in the room and have a look.

20.  Practice breathing exercises regularly.

21.  Keep little time for yoga and meditation.

22.  Aromatherapy is good to relax the mind.

23.  If you are tense make a surprise call to your old friend.

24.  When you are tensed think about others who suffer from more serious problems.

25.  Keep close contact with your family and share the problems with them.

26.  Go for pleasure trips with the family members.

27.  Avoid sedentary life, always mingle with others.

28.  Always approach others with a smile.

29.  Laughing and sharing jokes with others will make you relaxed.

30.  When you are tense visit your close friend or relative.

31.  If any stressful event comes, discuss it with your intimate friend.

32.  Spend little time with your kids and join their plays.

33.  If you get time, go for a healthy discussion on any interesting topic.

34.  Always approach the people in a polite manner.

35.  Maximum attempt should be made to reduce enemies.

36.  Keep a regular routine for your activities.

37.  Never postpone the works.

38.  Sound sleep is very essential to relax your mind and body.

39.  Always prefer room with fresh air.

40.  Get up early in the morning.

41.  After waking have a nice bath with your favorite shampoo.

42.  Use some perfumes and room fresheners you like.

43.  Have a relaxing body massage.

44.  Personal hygiene should be maintained.

45. Your health problems should be discussed with the doctor and follow his instructions.

46.  Make a habit of cleaning the home and surroundings.

47.  Keep sexual relations with only one partner.

48.  Morning and evening walk is  good to relax.

49.  Afternoon sleep is good but should not be a deep sleep with snoring.

50.  Listen to good music and go for a movie with your intimate friend.

51.  Reading interesting books can reduce tension.

52.  Gardening is a useful method to relax.

53.  Spend little time with pet animals.

54.  Engage in some games.

55.  Keep some time to engage in your hobbies.

56.  When you get time write some literal things like articles, poems and stories.

57.  Keep a regular timing for food.

58.  Take plenty of fruits and vegetables.

59.  Prepare your favorite meal and have it with your family.

60.  Having food from restaurants may give you a good mood. 

61.  Excess of drinking and smoking should be avoided.   

     Seems like quite a list of things that might help us resolve our tensions.  But we never want to overlook the major cause of all our problems and that is the fact that we’re only human!  


QUOTE TO CONSIDER


THOUGHTFUL GEM

"Maybe you're looking at the world wrong.

Remember:  STRESSED spelled backwards is

DESSERTS!"



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