Thursday, April 13, 2017

What Has Happened?


            When I was growing up as a kid we used to do some crazy things to amuse ourselves.  Some of these “pranks” involved using the telephone.  You have to remember this was during a time when telephones had a wire that connected them to the wall and this was even before the wires now (at least for those who still use “landlines”) that you simply “unplug” from the wall jack.  These wires had “hard” cords that came in from the outside telephone poles and were connected directly to your phone.  Some day “for fun” we would call people on their phones and tell them that we were from the phone company and that they were the lucky winners of an extra 25 feet of phone wire to make using their phone around the room easier.  All they had to do was reach down, take hold of the cord where it was attached to their wall and PULL HARD!  Of course, when they did this, their phone went dead because they had torn the connection out of the wall.  We thought it was extremely funny, but I’m sure the people we called didn’t think so since they no longer had phone service until they contacted the phone company and had them repair it.

            We also had another “prank” we liked to pull on some store owners, but I’ll have to give you a little background information so that some of my readers will better understand the “punch line” of the joke.  During the time I was growing up it was available for people to purchase tobacco so they could “roll” their own cigarettes.  Yes, it’s true!  Not only could people ruin their lungs by inhaling cigarette smoke, but they had to put in some extra work and MAKE THEM THEMSELVES!  That being said, the tobacco was available packed in packages or tin containers.  One of the companies that produced this product made a brand called “Prince Albert.”  Wow!  Now all that being said, here’s the way the joke went.

            We would call a store and when the clerk answered the phone, we would ask, “Do you have Prince Albert in a can?”  When they answered, “Yes,” we would tell them, “You better let him out; he’s not going to be able to breathe.”  Of course, we would immediately hang up so we didn’t have to hear any “negative” comments from the clerk.

            Another thing that we used to do, we called the “secretary prank.” It didn’t take much set-up, but if you wanted to do the joke properly you had to make sure you allowed a sufficient amount of time and spaced the “parts” of the prank at appropriate times. This required some amazing patience at times.  So here’s the way the time-line of the joke would play out.

            You would choose your “target” and have a friend give them a call.  When they answered their phone your friend would ask, “Could I speak to Larry?” (Or whatever name you wanted to use.)  They would usually reply, “There’s no one here named Larry,” and then the friend would hang up.  About a half hour later you would have another friend call the target again and ask, “Could I please speak to Larry?”  Again the person would reply, “There’s no one here named Larry,” and your friend would hang up.  About another half hour passed and you would have your first friend call back again and, trying to change their voice at little, asks, “Could I speak to Larry?”  Once again you get the reply (and now there’s a little more sternness in the voice), “There’s NO ONE here named Larry!”  You have to wait about another half hour and then you call the target back.  When they answer the phone this time you say, “I’m sorry I haven’t made it in yet.  This is Larry, have I had any calls yet today?”  Usually you get a brief pause on the other end of the phone because they really don’t know what to say.  Don’t wait too long, just hang up!

            As you can tell from these few examples, back in my youth, most “pranks” were basically harmless fun. Today, WHAT HAS HAPPENED?  Young people use the internet and their social media accounts to brutally attack other young ones.  Sometimes, they would not even know the person personally.  And they can be extremely persistent in their attacks, sometimes to the point of driving an individual to the point of committing suicide!  And yet they do these despicable deeds behind the cloak of “secrecy” on their social media connections.

            And in a different area, WHAT HAS HAPPENED?  When I was in school you went so that you could get an education, with the view of having a successful and prosperous future.  Today it seems that some only go to school because they HAVE to!  I was actually expelled for three days during my senior year of high school because of having my shirt tail out of my pants!  I know that may be hard for some to believe now, but dress codes were strictly enforced at that time.  Now in many schools they’re mainly thankful that the kids are showing up wearing clothes!

            When we had a young girl become pregnant, her family would “secretly ship her out of town” to a relative until after she gave birth.  It was only whispered about and usually became the shame of the family and of the school and sometime even the community (depending on the size of your town). WHAT HAS HAPPENED?  In many schools today they not only make allowances for any young girl who becomes pregnant, but if the girl’s school year continues AFTER she has the baby, they have made arrangements for “daycare” for the baby (if needed) while she attends classes!

            And also prevalent today, which was practically unheard of in my youth, so many young ones go to school with knives and guns!  Not only are they carrying them to school, but they are using them to cause chaotic situations and disrupting the lives of many individuals and bringing other lives to an end.  Time and again all of this takes place for senseless reasons and families are torn apart and many destroyed forever!

            I don’t have the answers!  I wish I had the “quick” fix or could wave my hand and change everything for the better.  But young people need to know that they are loved, that their lives have meaning.  These young ones need to know that they are the future generation of mankind.  The love of humanity should shine from them and shine upon them.  We can look around us and see WHAT HAS HAPPENED!  And we need to realize it’s not too late to help these young ones make changes and not be the target of bullies and those who attack.  And also not to be the attacker but love all the differences within us and understand that it is these very things that make us strong.  We can do this for our younger generation, while knowing it starts with ONE youngster at a time.  Don’t hold back where you can help, do it!  Where you can guide someone in having greater respect for themselves and others, just do it!  You can be the “spark” that is needed to change a young ones life!  They will love you for it forever and you will love yourself for doing it!

QUOTE TO CONSIDER

THOUGHTFUL GEM

"If you know something is going to hurt --
WHY do you do it?"



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