Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Add Self-Care to Your Day

 

      Maybe you are like many of us and you take part of the day to review and prepare for all the things you are going to need to get done in tomorrow’s schedule! Have you ever paused for a moment and thought: “Where do I fit into that day?”

      If you’re like most people you’re pretty busy.  You’re already dealing with work, relationships, and a whole lot of day-to-day activities.  You’re running in every direction at once.  How in the world are you supposed to fit self-care into a day like that?  Thankfully, it’s easier than you think.  Try these five simple suggestions to add self-care into your busy day and you may be surprised at the results you can obtain.

 

Ask Some Important Questions

 

     Self-care isn’t always about over-indulging yourself.  Taking the day off to go hunting, fishing, swimming, to the saloon, or whatever you might consider to be indulging.  Truly, at its core, self-care is more practical than you might think.  You may be pondering the idea that working self-care into your daily routine is going to become very time consuming on your already tight schedule.  However, all you need to initial do is ask yourself a few questions about what you need right now!  Meeting these basic needs should be at the center of self-care.

 

Map it Out

 

     Think about all the things you do now in your busy daily schedule.  Do they simply happen by chance?  Or have you been very meticulous about planning them out and scheduling a time for them within your daily routine?  Self-care is no different!  It doesn’t happen by chance.  Unless you are intentional, you will never make time for it.  By making use of your calendar and scheduling time for yourself you are more likely to succeed in meeting your basic needs.  Start small by building in the habits which will help you the most.  You can begin by adding in regular exercise  dates, perhaps several days a week, or by making a meal plan to help you eat healthier.  As you achieve one goal, add in another.  The key is not to overwhelm yourself all at once in the beginning, but to steadily build yourself up as you go along.

 

Figure Out What Comes First

 

     How are you when it comes to priorities?  If you’re like most people, just deciding where to begin can be difficult.  Here you need to figure out the difference between important and urgent.  If something is important and not urgent, you can add it to your schedule.  If something is urgent and not important, give it to someone else to do.  But if something is urgent and important, do that first.  Never confuse that which you’d like to do with that that needs to be done!

 

Learn to Say “NO!”

 

     If you have gained life’s experiences for any length of time, you already know that it is generally easier to do things yourself instead of trying to explain them to others or have others do them the way you want them done.  You should never feel like you have to say “yes” to everything.  Sometimes the best form of self-care is learning how to say “no.”  This may be at your place of employment or it may be within your family, or even with your friends.  By setting solid boundaries, you protect yourself from activities which will only leave you drained and give you no benefit at all!

 

Do the Small Stuff

 

     Somebody should take care of that matter!  Anybody can do it!  Yet, in most cases, NOBODY gets it done!  We think the little things don’t matter.  BUT THEY DO!  By ensuring you take care of the basics such as making sure you get enough sleep, practicing good hygiene, eating right and exercising, you will keep your body in tiptop form.  These things also have a solid impact on your mental health.

 

     When we get busy, we tend to forget all these things so easily.  When you’re making an effort to take care of yourself, you have to be intentional in what you do.  Remembering these 5 suggestions will go a long way toward keeping you healthy and happy no matter how busy you get.  But, don’t be too hard on yourself if it takes you some time to get these priorities to become part of your daily routine, and never forget, we’re only human!  


QUOTE TO CONSIDER



THOUGHTFUL GEM


"If you don't take care of yourself,

how can you take care of others?"





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