Saturday, September 9, 2017

If ONLY ---


     Have you ever wondered what would things be like if this or that had happened differently?  Or if you had made a different decision in the past, would you be in a better position today or would you be in a worse position?  I think all of us at one time or another have had those thoughts:  If ONLY we had done things differently!

     There’s nothing wrong with daydreaming and wondering how the outcome would have changed.  However, a more useful exercise would be to examine decisions made along with their outcomes BEFORE making new decisions or taking new actions.  You’ve probably heard it said:  If you continue to do things the same way, you’re going to get the same results.

     It seems that the desire to go back in our lives and “fix” the things we did wrong has been the topic of many a Hollywood movie.  Quiet often the theme is that it can be done and the aftermath would be that all in our life would now be “rosy” and “perfect”: just the way it should have been from the beginning.  However, the reality is that: first, we CAN’T go back and do things over.  There’s no Delorian or Marty McFly who is going to zip into the past and make a few adjustments and then zip back to the future and live the “charmed” life.  Second, if it WERE possible most movies leave out ALL the intrinsic details of the complexities that would be involved in altering even one detail of the past.  This has been called by some the Butterfly Effect!  What is it and how does it relate to our topic of changing something in the past?

     Simply put, the butterfly effect is defined (with reference to the chaos theory) as the phenomenon whereby a minute localized change in a complex system can have large effects elsewhere.  This is not a new notion.  Fichte in The Vacation of Man (1800) stated:  “You could not remove a single grain of sand from its place without thereby … changing something throughout all parts of the immeasurable whole.”

     This might sound like an unrealistic assumption.  How can a slight change like that one result in a big one such as a change the WHOLE?  Here is an example (very simple) that will help you understand the Butterfly Effect theory in real life.  A man was working in a company where he was mistreated by his manager and after months of being disrespected by his arrogant boss he decided to quit.  Before the man left the company he spoke about it to the other employees and the result was that three other people decided to quit too.

     When those people found themselves unemployed they decided to start their own business.  After some time and a lot of hard work their business became a very successful operation to the extent that they started competing with the company they used to work for.  Under the pressure of the fierce competition the old company declared bankruptcy!

     Didn’t you just notice the Butterfly Effect in that example?  The mistreatment of a SINGLE employee resulted in the bankruptcy of the company years later.  This is what the Butterfly Effect theory is all about, a small unnoticeable change that can result in a very big one later on.

     But as I mentioned earlier, the butterfly effect is also a common theme in fiction (particularly in the movies).  This theme typically involves presenting multiple what-if scenarios when one story line diverges into two different outcomes because of a change in a minor event.

     I thought one of the more interesting of these movie sources was The Butterfly Effect.  A 2004 movie starring Ashton Kutcher, Amy Smart, and Melora Walters about a young man who struggles to access sublimated childhood memories.  He finds a technique that allows him to travel back into the past, to occupy his childhood body and change history.  However, he soon finds that every change he makes has unexpected consequences: Mostly to his detriment.

     In summation I think we all realize that knowing the things we did at a certain time period in the past means we would probably make the SAME decisions that we made then.  We also know that we CAN’T return to the past and change anything from happening the way they did.  However, IF ONLY we could!  HOW would things turn out?  We’ll never know.


QUOTE TO CONSIDER


THOUGHTFUL GEM

"When the job gets done successfully ---
don't worry about who gets the credit!"


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